I am in charge here

I am in charge here

You think you're the boss? Really? Think again.

Dominant mature woman seated wearing a gray suit, gray pantyhose and black high heels

When I say “I'm in charge here” and question whether you really think you're the boss, it's not just an assertion of authority; it's a reaffirmation of the dynamic I define in each session. Sometimes, some submissives come with an attitude of defiance, as if the power play is something they too can control. That is something I enjoy facing, because it allows me to demonstrate, in a clear and forceful way, who is truly in control.

The challenge presented by some can be an opportunity to delve deeper into the power dynamics we seek to explore. By questioning their perception of authority, I am instigating a reflection on their role and mine. My goal is to demonstrate that authority is not based on mere proclamation, but on the ability to effectively impose and maintain control. It is a reminder that, in this space, I am the one who sets the rules, sets the boundaries and directs the flow of experience.

When one thinks one can challenge my authority, what one is really doing is opening the door for a more intense demonstration of my dominance. The challenging attitude only reinforces my role and offers me an opportunity to adjust the dynamic and reassert my position. I get off on the idea of dismantling any illusion of control they may have and reminding them that here, I am the one in charge.

Ultimately, this type of interaction not only reaffirms my dominance, but also allows for a deeper, more authentic connection.